Thursday, January 25, 2007
Received a meaningful email from one of my fren.. hmm.. guess i should implement tt method also.. so that i would not hurt any of my close ones again.. why am i so bad tempered with my family and close friends yet treat friends who aint tt close with patience lehz?! i seems so not me when with different people.. lOlx.. sometimes i dun even know which is the real me.. lolx.. the quiet one, the noisy one, the lovely one, the irritating one, the angry one, the patience one, the crazy one, the shy one, the fake one, or the real one.... hahaz.. but dun care which one.. i just wanna learn tt lesson that is taught in the email which im going to show all of ya... hope i could realise the problem asap before more holes are being stab into other peoples whom i know.. =) hehz..NAIL IN THE FENCEThere once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His Father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence. The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence. Finally the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper. The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said, "You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won't matter how many times you say I'm sorry, the wound is still there. " A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one. Friends are very rare jewels, indeed. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed. They lend an ear, they share words of praise and they always want to open their hearts to us." == Please forgive me if I have ever left a hole. ==... luv me while i'm alive, never cry or regret once i'm away ...
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