Friday, January 20, 2006
hmm... today reach sch at 10am to meet my CATs grp members to discuss abt our CATs 6-hat thinking and script for our product.. charmaine was ter at canteen 1 when i reach at 10am.. i reach on time.. den stef came half an hr later... and cheryl 1hr later... clara didnt come... she 1230 den wake up.. reach class already 2pm le...
hmm after our CATs class from 1-230pm.. we go canteen 1 to wait for e rest... today miracle sia.. teacher release us so early.. lolx... hmm.. wait till 3 for our S&W lesson... den release at 5pm... go board bus wif stef, ronnie and sixian... i pon my jap class again... haiz.. realli no mood to go.. hahaz... hmm.. went cck w sx to meet zy and jy... and we actually gonna shop for clothes de.. but in the end sth happen.. den cant manage to do tt then...
hmm eat ljs... den after tt jy start poking sx's belly button... den say gonna eat and go home le.. sx den getting buay song.. coz he always wait for them but they didnt wait for him.. coz they buy their clothes le.. den now is sx turn to buy... hmm.. den after eating... dunno wad happen on e escalator.. den after reaching the platform... both of them start to chase among one another... mi and zy den pretend dunno them lahz.. so paiseh.. they still kanna scolded by other shoppers... sx still scold back... hahaz... hmm... den after tt u could imagine lahz... both of them chase liaoz.. den both unhappy.. and sx ask jy to scam.... den zy went after jy... mi and sx juz stand outside e shop tt he gonna buy his clothes ter ahz... i call zy later to ask how le lo... den say they still outside e shopping centre... hmm.. next sx shout over my phone to ask jy to go... den in the end.. after much persuation by zy... jy still leave on his own ahz... den zy came back... and sx already go buy the clothes himself when i was over e phone wif zy & jy... hmm... after tt went to buy zy want de dye.. and went to buy e belt i wanted... den went home... actually gonna go cwp de.. but my bro suddenly high fever after 1 days of vomitting... and another 1 whole day on his bed... den my mum have to bring him to e clinic again ahz.. den i have to take care of my sis lo... i online went online at 1030plus... after taking care of my sis, put cold handkerchief on my bro's forehead.. and watch tv and bathe.. hahaz.. today seems to be so busy.. so many things happened... hmm...
actually today de incident is like so "CHILDISH" to me... aiya.. coz jy always like to gey kuay mahz.. say those stuff tt would provoke sx... hmm.. den the other will get unhappy over tiz lahz...
today make mi recall wad happen during e chalet last yr... sx is still him.. den mi and jy switch role... hmm... actually sx told mi tiz at cck when jy left.. den jy also told zy when they were outside e shopping centre... tiz show that they still got "mo qi" worhz... hmm.. i told jy after tt.. say tt "i can face all of u after tt chalet.. so how could u not?! since u face sx only lehz.. i face ALL of u lehz..." den i say.. as for now, juz treat it as a lesson learnt lo... and next time dun let it happen again... even if it does, solve it... coz something worse may happen... hmm... jy told mi that "after everyone c sx's blog sure think i wad liaoz.." but i replied: "den u write wad u feel down urself lo... tts wat sx thinks mahz... so u write down let ppl see wad u think lo..."
actually after lin saw sx's blog told mi tt its jy's fault.. but i told her tt "even if it is his fault, we also cant tell him tt... neither do we tell him tt he's right... we can juz give advise and let he/she reflect on their own..." den lin say "yahlor..." hahaz... den chat chat chat.. till 1120 like tt.. i told lilin and sharon:"if till1130 he still dun reflect on his own i dun care abt them le.."
aiya.. we as frens can only do till so far... the rest muz solve on their own... 5yrs de frens lehz.. not 5 seconds... hmm... den i told jy:"it shows tt both of u care since both of u are fuming mad...u would not be so angry and sad over some strangers de lo..."
den using tt last 10mins tt i could spare, i give him examples of weishi... [ sorri ahz.. juz using as examples nia.. weishi... dun wack mi.. =P ] hmm.. i told him tt we sometimes also dun like weishi beat us.. den e tone she use to talk to us... but we as frens tolerate her ahz.. coz we noe tt within her, she actually cared for us... and give us advise when in need since she is e most matured within us mahz.. and also give us goodies sometimes as we always long long time den meet once... [who ask u gey kuay go NYP.. so far from our sch.. =P ] hmm... goodies is not present ahz.. juz like give us 'hao chu' when she have lahz.. hahaz... =P
hmm... den he finally say "haiz... mayb im wrong..."
hahaz.. not tt he's wrong lahz... but at least he got reflect and think tt he is wrong in some way ahz... normally in a dispute, both parties are wrong de ahz.. juz tt one is more unreasonable that the other... that is y making the problem worse... if each step a step back ward, den nuttin would happen le ahz... muz learn to tolerate mahz... if realli cant then tell the other one how and wat u feel lo... at least u make it clear to the other one mahz...
“忍一时风平浪静，退一步海阔天空。”
realli think that the person who invented tiz words beri smart sia... learning to tolerate and prevent more things from occurring...
my dad also taught mi alot ahz.. juz tt i dun like to listen.. and dun wan to listen.. but still he will always tell mi whenever im alone with him in his car... “一，做事情不要耍脾气，会弄巧反拙。“
“二，做什么事都好，不要紧张，这样会更慢。“
“三，不要暴躁，这样做不了什么事的。“
he always tell mi that:”我只是要尽我做父亲的责任和本分。要是是别人，我连睬多不睬啊。每次和你说这些你都不要学，那我怎样教你其他的东西呢？“
hmm.. sometimes wonder why we tend to harm those tt are closest to us... using words and actions... hmm... we tend to be careful of wat we say and do in front of others...
but whenever to family and closer frens.. we tend to show our discontenment out... sometimes wonder y... haiz... im sure many of u also the same bahz... think abt how u treat ur family and ur frens... is it different in one sense of another....?
today de incident really make me reflect myself also worhz... but everytime reflect, the next day forgot wat i learn abt e lesson today le... hahaz... but at least i wrote it down le.. to let mi noe i reflect on my own once.. =P and i hope others too.. (esp sx and jy...)
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End of my melody... @ 11:44 PM
